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love, soul, fit

Love, Soul, Fit

This poem brought to you by a friend’s shitty ex and messy divorce out of the blue. (And it bringing up past feels about my divorce.) Enjoy!  How do you fall out of love? Is it overnight, all at once? where something was, then nothing is, except for maybe pain and fears? Is it gradual, a …

an illustration of a person laying in bed dreaming of another person swinging while their swing is tied to the moon - titled "dreams of your ancestors"

Dreams of Your Ancestors

I came across a TikTok video today that hard me nearly in tears. It features an individual reading a piece of work by Bert Hellinger discussing black sheep in families. Here is Bert’s full piece: The so-called black sheep of the family are, in fact, hunters born of paths of liberation into the family tree. The …

a look back at 2022

A Look Back at 2022

I used to write end-of-the-year updates like these on my other websites. When COVID-19 hit, I mostly stopped as it felt like I wasn’t doing as much. I’m bringing it back in this space, especially cause it helps me see all that I really do. Two Years with My Favorite Human & Getting Engaged Two …

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Sex and Medical Care Survey, 2016

In the summer of 2016, I conducted a survey to gather initial information for a presentation I did at the Stanford University Medicine X Conference back at the beginning of my sexuality education work. (It was also back when I was using my birth name.) It recently occurred to me that I never really published …