Since the summer of 2023, my best friend has been fighting back against an abuser — her ex-fiancé.
Just as we were working to set up a fundraiser, her lawyers have demanded payment in full of the $3,453.22 owed to continue working her case.
Unfortunately, after nearly 9 months of staying with friends, relying on the generosity of others, and paying all the bills on the home she owns alone — while he continues to live there, not paying a dime — she doesn’t have it. And, unless we can raise funds, that means we can’t move forward with the fundraiser she desperately needs.
The funds are currently going through me to protect her identity at this time. Any funds raised above the lawyer fees will go to paying down her maxed out credit lines and past-due payments for both utilities and the mortgage.
Can you help?
If you can help either directly or indirectly, please reach out to me.
If you’re able to donate, please use the following:
- Venmo: graysongoal
- CashApp: $chronicsex
- PayPal: paypal.me/chronicsex
- Ko-Fi (see below)
As I write this, we’ve already raised $585 — or roughly 16% of what she needs to pay off the lawyer bill. It’s a small dent in what we need to raise, but a great start.
If you purchase anything from my affiliates, the money I would normally receive will be going to my friend.
Safe-for-work Affiliates
- Amazon
- Bookshop
- Sunsama — Not a direct affiliate BUT if you sign up using my link, we both get a month for free, meaning I can donate my regular monthly fee to my friend.
- TeePublic
- Top of the Mornin’ Coffee — Not a direct affiliate BUT if you purchase using my link, I’ll save on my coffee and donate regular costs to my friend.
If you’re in the market for NSFW items, you can view those affiliates here.
In-kind donations
If you’d like to start coaching, donating $50 to my friend will get you 2 hours of coaching for free.
The same goes for any consulting work, although the cost changes. $100 donated will get you 2 hours of consulting work free.
If you’d like to book me for an upcoming event or presentation, any honorarium I would receive will go to my friend instead. And, if you act before the end of March, we can discuss working on multiple projects for a discounted rate.
Are you interested in helping in another way? Please feel free to reach out to me via contact form or email at graysongoal -at- gmail -dot- com.